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 Wanted: Dead or Alive (1987)
IMDB rating: 5.50
Plot: Nick Randall is a bounty hunter who’s built up quite a resume. One notable resume highlight, though, happened before his current career began—as a CIA agent. Malak Al Rahim, an evil international terrorist, shows up on the scene and suddenly there is a new member of America’s Most Wanted list. A deadly game of cat and mouse fine Nick as both the mouse and the cat— but has Nick finally met his match?
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Wanted: Dead or Alive
Directors: Sherman Gary
Actors: Hauer Rutger,Simmons Gene,Guillaume Robert,Russ William,Hardin Jerry,Gillin Hugh,Harper Robert,Danker Eli,Nasser Joseph,Papasyan Gerald,Faltas Nick,Shafie Hammam,Action,Crime,Drama,Thriller,
self esteem problems ruining relationship?
So, I have this problem with feeling ugly all the time. My boyfriend is so prefect that it scares me he’ll find someone else because I’m not beautiful enough… We’ve been together for nine months now and we’ve been planning out our future, which is coming at us so quickly. We’ve planned out our careers, where we’re going to college, ect… I’m afraid I’ll lose it all just for the simple fact I’m ugly. We’re so in love, well he says he’s in love w/ me, but I’m in love w/ him. It’ll be hard if I lose him. He tells me I’m beautiful all the time and how I’m the most gorgeous girl alive, how no ones more perfect, how I should be a model… How I have a beautiful personality, how I have a huge heart, how I’m so nice to everyone which makes me even more beautiful… blah blah blah… That stuff is so sweet and nice! & I appreciate it so much and it does cheer me up, however at the end of the day I’m back to being scared.
I have this HUGE hatred for his ex’s Ashley and Kathryn… They text him all the time! They keep in touch with him! Supposedly he doesn’t reply/answer to them though. Hm… I’m getting fed up. I feel as if he still wants them b/c I’m not pretty enough.
I had a conversation w/ his ex Kathryn a couple months ago b/c she send him nudes. I told her a whole bunch of stuff and she said this,
"It’s not my fault you’re boyfriend comes to me ’cause he says he’s lonely & plus he asked for the pictures. You can have your cheating boyfriend! You say he’s faithful but obviously he’s not. It makes me mad when girls being cheated on don’t realize it or in denial. I want to beat your a ss right now. He doesn’t love you, or even like you, he never even mentions you. I actually just found out he had a g/f."
That hurt and I didn’t know what to believe, I thought she was jealous of our relationship, then I thought it was true, I have so many mixed feelings.
Anyways I need help! Am I overreacting? Do I have anything to worry about? How can I get over this?… I’ve put up w/ this for too long now…
If you’re curious, here’s me:
http://i1020.photobucket.com/albums/af32 9/mexicana_022/Photo0175jpg.jpg
Here’s him:
http://i1020.photobucket.com/albums/af32 9/mexicana_022/123.jpg
Honestly it doesn’t matter if you think I’m pretty, or even if I think it. Right now, it’s about what he thinks, which is why I’m worried.
YES I AM DEAD SERIOUS ABOUT THIS.
Well, this isn’t about how pretty you are or aren’t. First off, you suffer from a poor self-image. You are very cute, and if you have a beautiful personality to go with it, you’re way ahead of either Ashley or Kathryn.
Second, if it really bothers you that much, then he shouldn’t be communicating with either of them, let alone getting nude pictures. Of COURSE he’s answering them, or they wouldn’t keep texting. I have a strong suspicion that he IS cheating on you and will CONTINUE cheating on you. It won’t get any better after marriage, either. This isn’t because he’s so dreamy and you’re not; it’s because he’s morally bankrupt and thinks he’ll always be able to get away with it.
I would postpone plans for the future. Give him an ultimatum that it’s either them or it’s you, but be prepared to follow through on it. Empty ultimatums are worthless. Also, see if you can’t get some therapy to help you with your self-image problems. You’ll feel so much better about yourself, you’ll hardly be able to believe it.
Bill F | Feb 05, 2010
It looks like your way out of his league.
soblonde8 | Feb 05, 2010
Write him a note in 4th period Algebra:
"It’s me or them. No wait, I changed my mind, HIT THE ROAD, JACK, and don’t you come back no more, no more, no more, no more. HIT THE ROAD, JACK, and don’t you come back no more.
WHAT YOU SAY?
Hit the road, Jack."
Salacious Crumb | Feb 05, 2010
Haha… you are a much better looking than him. You are just going to have to find that out for yourself though.
I would ask him about what she said. If he changes the subject or starts a blame-game, then you will know something is up.
You should also talk to him about texting his ex-s if it bothers you so much. If you are worth it in his opinion then he won’t hesitate to give that up for you.
Hope this helps… best of luck!
Your Future Hero | Feb 05, 2010
I’m not going to look at the pics because I’m not interested but it DOES matter you don’t think your pretty. Your right you have no self esteem. You might want to think about doing some sort of counseling. And have you brought up what happened with his ex to your boyfriend. If not you need to. If you can’t be honest with how you feel THAT is what will ruin the relationship.
jnjmommy | Feb 05, 2010
I have seen your picture and you definitely have a self esteem issue you should look into. On the other hand it is not healthy for the relationship for your boyfriend to be receiving nudes from his ex’s. He should have the sensitivity to put a stop to that if he really is committed to you and really loves you. It’s as easy as telling him how you feel about it and asking him to tell them to stop texting and sending nudes. If he refuses you should take it as a big red light. It is simply something you dont put through someone you love.
Best of luck!
Daniel | Feb 05, 2010
S. Crumb summed it up perfectly.
GUY bein a GUY | Feb 05, 2010